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When I was young, I spent a lot of time with my grandparents, especially before I was old enough to go to school. Staying with Pa and Granny was the start of my love of photography. Since the family was spread out, Granny loved getting pictures, so much so that she put every single picture on her front wall. It was covered with pictures, most without frames. Granny used whatever was handy to pin or tack the pictures on the wall. I would sit and stare at the pictures and ask questions about the relatives, as well as seeking out the ones that I was in. It became a kind of game to see if I could point to the pictures and tell each person, where they lived and my relationship to them.

One year, Granny and Pa had their picture taken at one of the local photography studios. I don’t know how many pictures they bought for the family, but I do remember the framed 8X10 portrait that hung in the top left hand corner of the living room, between the gas heater and a small end table. I don’t have any good pictures of them so when I saw it hanging in a relative’s house, I asked if I could scan it. Now, here it is digitized for the world to enjoy.

How I cherish those times when I was a boy. I remember my Granny, a short farm woman, would get up every morning and make my Grandpa and me a hearty breakfast of eggs, bacon, sausage, buttermilk, orange juice, biscuits and gravy - for Pa, it was sweet-milk gravy (known to some people as Red-Eye gravy or white gravy), but for me, the house specialty - chocolate gravy! Yumm! It makes my mouth water just thinking about it.

After breakfast, we would go outside and I would play while my grandparents did yard work. Granny and Pa, having moved to the “city” from the country, remained true to their upbringing and turned their yard into a veritable Eden. There were peach and apricot trees, rose bushes, green onion plants, holleyhocks, honeysuckle, grapes, and raspberry vines. When they moved to town, Pa brought along a large sandstone rock that he placed in his yard and filled every day with water for the cats. Sometimes they would sit on the porch and watch the cars go by while I made mudpies. I would take water from the rock and mix it with dirt in Granny’s old butter bowls which I would then put in the trees to “bake”. In the afternoon, we would all take a nap then go back outside for more playing and car watching. Sometimes Pa and I would go out back to his tool shed. I’m never sure what he did in there, because he never made anything that I remember, but he had a bunch of old tools and nails and stuff that he would arrange and clean. While he did that, I would play with my Tonka tractors. Once in a while, Granny would get out her “marble” board and dice and we would play a game of “Wahoo.” (The board wasn’t made of marble, rather it was made of wood and used to play a game of marbles.) In the evening, it was back to the porch for car watching, and sometimes a snack of cookies and milk or biscuits soaked in buttermilk.

I count myself to be the luckiest of the grandkids. My dad was the youngest in his family, so all of my cousins were older. My siblings, who came along after my Dad remarried, didn’t have very many years with Granny and Pa before Pa died and Granny’s alzheimers made her into a different person. I don’t know if any of the older cousins got to know then the same way that I did because they all lived in different towns and didn’t get so see them as much. My Grandpa had a heart problem that caused him to be hospitalized over Christmas vacation my freshman year in high school. Since I was old enough to stay with him and since I was out of school, I got to keep him company all week. I don’t think anyone else of my generation was ever able to spend such quality time with him.

Many pictures. Many memories. If you don’t have a good picture of your family, I encourage you to go get one. In the very least, get someone to take a snapshot. Years from now, your family will thank you for it.

Your Fellow “Creative Genius ” ,
-Texaiano

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